I met someone.
He is aware he has a gift: people tend to appreciate and respect him. Most of the times they look at him as at a leader, in daily happenings and in major/important circumstances as well.
He knows he is not modest. But if only he will be able to meet their expectations at all times…
Anyways… Somehow life often puts him in situations when he has to focus more on others’ welfare than on his own. When he has to take care of unimaginable challenges, for others to feel good. Challenges that they don’t even know about. And never will.
He says he rarely expects anything in exchange of his efforts. The biggest award is the people’s happiness and confort. When he has moments of weakness, he has very few people to talk to. Usually, they’re also far away. When he needs help, he has to reflect, get an extra pack of courage and move on. The next day, he’s back to his usual responsibilities.
He is rarely frustrated and only once or twice he said “why am i doing all these?”.
He says that for him the biggest challenge was to accept that most of the people are not selfish, but still think just about themselves. And no, they aren’t selfish. It’s just difficult to see the picture when you’re in it.
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